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After listening to A Tiny Homestead, the podcast comprised entirely of conversations with homesteaders, cottage food producers, and crafters, and topics adjacent. I'm your host, Mary Lewis. If you're enjoying this podcast, please like, subscribe, share it with a friend, or leave a comment. Thank you. Today I'm talking with Meg at Skylight Farm in Wisconsin. Good afternoon, Meg. How are you? Hi, I'm good. Good. I was just telling Meg before I hit record, the weather here in Minnesota right now is

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Going from it to gross It was over 40 degrees this morning and now it's 33 degrees It's raining and I expected to shift to snow any minute. So we're kind of excited. They had said two to five inches They're now saying six to seven inches overnight

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Wow, that's a lot. I think we will probably get dumped on here at least one more time this year, but I definitely would rather the frozen ground and the snow right now over the rain and the mud. Yes, me too, because we have a dog and I have a husband and an adult son who live here. And mud is always on my kitchen floor right now. For sure. Yep. This past week, it's been like May, you know, it's been like May mud.

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and dirt and leaves from the lawn or the, we don't have a lawn from the yard. And it's been kind of messy and that's great because it means strings on its way, but it's kind of bad when you got to sweep it all up. Yeah. So Meg, I always talk about the weather at the beginning of the podcast, just to give people an idea of what's going on. And it's a record of what was going on at the time. And so tell me about yourself and tell me what you do at Skylight Farm.

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We do a few things here at Skylight Farm. Originally, initially, I've been a full-time horse trainer since 2012, and we purchased the farm here in Wisconsin for boarding and training of dressage horses in 2019. Yeah. And, you know, since we've had this beautiful, wonderful place, things have...

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evolved a little bit and we do a little bit more of the farmsteading homesteading sort of stuff in conjunction with what we do with the horses. So we have like, I think we have 25 raised beds, we have some really beautiful soft root that we, that's come to, it's come to be, you know, a really adult producing.

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thing now. We have really beautiful raspberries and currants and soft fruit. And just, you know, kind of try to do everything that we do here with partnership with nature and more surrounded by nature preserve here and in the southern kettle marine. And it's just, it's beautiful here. It's like our little paradise.

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Everybody says that about their places if they're a homestead or a farm. I can't tell you how many times I've heard my little piece of heaven or paradise or whatever. And I love it. I really, really do. So you're the first person that has mentioned dressage horses in over a year and a half of doing interviews and podcast episodes. Um, so do you, do you offer training or how does that work?

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Yeah, I have been a full-time dressage trainer since I started my business and left pharmaceutical sales in 2012. So I offer board really top quality, top, top quality care, really comprehensive care board training lessons. And we actually are capable here and do a fair amount of what we call rehabilitative boards.

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horses that come in here that have had major surgeries or major injuries and are able to help them rehab in that difficult time of their lives and provide that kind of care that they they need oftentimes it's intensive with bandage changing and hand walking and medications and you know some some pretty intensive requirements for those horses, but I have a wonderful team here and I'm

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I'm really grateful that we can offer those services because it's actually really hard to find.

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Okay, cool. I want to talk about this for a minute because I love horses. I don't have any. I wasn't a horse girl growing up, but I think that they're gorgeous. And dressage is to me, every time I hear dressage, I think dancing horses, but I don't think that's right. Yeah, that's absolutely right. It's like a dance together. When it's done well, it's really beautiful. And it's all about the partnership.

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So how old are the horses when people start training them for this? Well, that's a good question, actually. So my philosophy on that is from day one. And I kind of specialize in starting young horses, actually. So we don't obviously ride them as babies, but all of their interactions with people and learning how to trust people and learning how to interact with people on the ground.

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All of that happens every day, even when they're very, very young, and that sets them up for success in all of their training later on. We generally take our young horses between three and four years old and get them started under saddle. It's a really methodical kind of slow process for us because we really want it to be about that trust and partnership. Some horses hit the ground running a little faster and others just take a little bit more time.

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Okay. Cool. I'm like, my whole brain is spinning now because I didn't know you did this. I didn't see anything on your Facebook page about it. And I was like, oh, okay. So my biggest question about the training the horses once you're riding them for Drusso is how many times have you hit the ground because the horse misunderstood a signal? Well, let's see. I have hit the ground.

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Thankfully only a few times in my long career with horses actually, but I think that's probably a testament to How methodical we are in the training? Of course it is one of those things when you work with horses for a living that it it's not an if it's a if It's going to yeah But I think a lot of times it's more

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So let's see, the last time I fell off or ended on the ground, it was totally a miscommunication. The horse spooked at something that was totally valid and then tripped at the same time. And he went right and I went left and we both got up and looked at each other and had no idea what happened. So, you know, for the most part, safety is really, really important to us here at the farm and we do everything we can to keep everybody safe. But inevitably, once in a while, things go.

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a little bit haywire when you're working with animals. Yeah, and the reason I phrased it the way I did is because horses are really smart. And if you know the horse and the horse knows you, the only time that something, I feel like the only time something really goes wrong is if there's a miscommunication or if the horse gets pooped like you were saying. Horses, once they know you, they're like

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Usually, right? Yes, very, very much. They're really connected and it's, I don't know, it's just a very cool thing with horses. I could geek out and go down the rabbit hole with that all day long, but they are, they really want to be connected with people. And I think the better listeners we can be, the better we have a chance to communicate with them. And, you know, other times there are things that once in a while go unnoticed that we'll

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you know, will result in a not so good situation with the horse. And sometimes it's pain related. And of course, we of course, we do our very, very best to keep our team of, you know, vets and body workers and everybody involved. But like, for example, I, I got dumped a couple of years ago by a mare that had she must have done something out in the field. And this was a tried and true steady eddy.

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super, super kind horse and she ended up doing something that she pinched a nerve in her back. And it was just, it was a pain situation. And once we were able to work the kinks out of that, there was, it was never an issue again. But, um, you know, most of the time they're, they're pretty darn wonderful. Yeah. I, I've said this before, but I'm gonna say it again. Had I had access to horses when I was 10,

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I absolutely would have been a horse girl. I would have been begging my parents for horse riding lessons and being at the stable to help groom and take care of them. I would have been obsessed. It's a damn good thing I did not have access to horses because my parents would have disowned me. Yeah. Well, it's definitely, it's up there with things like sailing and other very, very expensive sports. It is definitely.

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It's definitely an investment, but if you ask me, it's worth it. Oh, absolutely. But my, my parents were not wealthy and that's okay. And, uh, we wouldn't have been able to afford how deep I would have wanted to go down that rabbit hole with horses when I was 10, if I could have. So it's a good thing. It's all right. I'm good with it. I think horses are just so breathtakingly beautiful.

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And I'm not around them very often. So I'm like sitting back being a spectator of what other people do with their horses. And I'm all good with that. So with you saying that it is an expensive thing to get into, I have a question about kids and horses and dress up. How old would you recommend a child be before they get involved in it? Well, I mean, it's probably.

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probably similar to my answer with the baby horses. Like I think it's great for kids to be around horses very young as long as everything is kept, safety in mind of course. But I find that when I have kids that are actually starting to take lessons, that like body stability and awareness and a little bit of tension span.

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I'm finding that a lot younger than like five or six is a little bit challenging. I mean, it's super fun to pop a little one up on top of a horse and hang out with them there for a few minutes while they get that experience and they have that joy and all of that fun. But really instruction and lessons and that kind of thing, I think it's a little bit challenging to do when they're a little less than five or six years old. It's just our attention

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get the most out of it. Yeah. And I was thinking probably kindergarten age would be a good place to start. Yeah, about that. And then the last question I have about this, because I do want to get on to your homesteading stuff, is are there specific horse breeds that are good for dressage or is it just a horse-by-horse thing? Well, it's definitely something that I think almost every horse can benefit.

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from dressage training. I mean, it's all about helping the horse find the best version of themselves. It's helping them maintain and find balance. It's helping them find confidence and posture and suppleness. And what we find is that all of our horses, even as they get into their golden years, I have 18, 19, 20, 21-year-old horses here that are still competing at the highest level of the sport. And

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on a national level. And they're, in their late teens, the best version of themselves, where I think the downside of some other horse disciplines at times, I think, can degrade the horse's body and mind and spirit, where I think the goal of classical dressage is to build all of that up. So that being said, any breed really can benefit from it. What we have here is mainly

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We have mainly warm bloods and I also import Iberian horses from Portugal. So those would be Lusitanos mostly. What else do we have here? We have a strafe region or two, but mostly warm bloods and Lusitanos. Okay. I don't know what a warm blood horse is. There's different types of warm bloods, like the German warm bloods and Dutch warm bloods is mostly what we have. So.

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Those are like their sport horse bred horses. You can have sport horse warm bloods that are bred specifically for jumping too. But ours are generally more dressage purpose bred warm bloods. So German and Dutch warm bloods. Okay. Awesome. Thank you for entertaining me with my questions. I have what I call got to know itis and when somebody brings up something I know just a little bit about, I'm like, what's that? Tell me about it.

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So if you are, if you have interest. Um, so the, the farm here, I, we have the, the farm is actually owned under Skylight farm, um, but my dressage training business is called dressage solutions, LLC, and I've been operating that since 2012 and, um, I have a, I have a separate Facebook page for that. Okay. Um, do me a favor and message me that later when we're done and then I can put it in the show notes too, for anybody who wants to get hold of you about.

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maybe being involved in dressage training. Cool. Because I bet there's some people in Wisconsin who would love to learn. It's very fun. Yeah. All right, so tell me about the other stuff at the farm. Oh, you know, I think we just, we love to be, again, connected with nature. And I find that the, I've been bitten by the gardening bug since probably before I was born. And my dad's side of the family,

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We're real farmer farmers here in Wisconsin, and my dad's the youngest of nine. And my mom is also my mom is the youngest of 14, I think 12 or 14. I'm horrible that I don't know that specifically. I should from Western Pennsylvania. And they were farmers to my mom's also a master gardener. So I just I've kind of been surrounded by it and have

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Just been connected with it since very, very young. You were immersed in it. Yes, totally. Uh-huh, cool. Just, it's so connecting to be in the garden and digging in the dirt and connecting with nature and seeing how things evolve on a daily and a seasonal basis, it's really beautiful.

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It is and I'm telling you, I am so happy that spring is coming. I mean, I'm looking out my window right now. You'd never know spring was coming. But it's March, ma'am. It's coming. I'm so excited to be outside. I'm so excited. I have everything ready. I got the grow lights ready last night and everything is ready to start our first batch of seeds and it feels like we've been delivered from yet another northern winter.

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You know, we get to the actual calendar date for the first day of spring, not the meteorological first day of spring, which was March 1st. And that morning, my husband gets up and gets his coffee. And it's usually the 20th or the 21st. He gets his coffee, and I wait, and I wait till he's got his first couple sips of coffee in him, and I say, we made it through another winter, honey. And he just asks me, now we've been together for like 20 something years. And he's like, it must be.

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spraying equinox and I'm like, yes, it is. And he just laughed. He's just like, honey, you know, it's going to come every year. And I'm like, well, there's no guarantee we're going to make it through another winter. And he's like, Oh God, here we go. He said, you're going to be higher than a kite for, for about a month and a half on all this stuff is showing you the leaves are going to, the trees are going to have leaves again, and then you're going to be even higher when we have seedlings to put in the garden.

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And then you hit high summer and you're gonna be like, I hate high summer. Yes, I know that feeling. So my birthday is on the 20th of May and like growing up mostly in Wisconsin, I've lived in other places too actually, but you know, kind of having my roots here in Wisconsin, like that time period, the late May, around Memorial Day, my birthday, early June, that's when like, I feel like for me, that's the most.

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heightened energy time of the entire year and we're just starting to ramp up to that now so I'm definitely feeling it. Yep. It's so funny because I love spring. Like April and May are my favorite months, warm months. I love fall. Oh my God, I love fall. October, November. Yes, I do too. Favorites again. Everything else, I could just skip. It would be fine. And you said that you have everything ready to go to plant seeds.

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It's pretty. My husband beat you by two and a half weeks. I'm glad. That's wonderful. He started planting seeds two weekends ago, three weekends ago. We have inch and a half tall pepper seedlings right now on our table. And we have little basil seedlings coming up and we have romaine and we have tomatoes coming up. And I...

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I've said this before, I feel like I repeat myself all the time on stuff I share with you guys, but I lose my kitchen table for eight weeks in the spring because that's where the grow lights go. And we have a hardsided greenhouse now that went up last May, but it's still too cold to start seeds in it right now. So my husband got stuff ready three, two, three weekends ago to plant. And I said, it's only February.

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He's like, yeah, but in eight weeks, it will be warm enough to take him out to the greenhouse. And I was like, yeah. Oh yeah. Okay. That's fine. Yes. Yes. Yes. I've always been curious to try. I do not have a greenhouse here, but that's on my bucket list for sure. One of my gardening gurus that I follow, he, um, he starts a little warmer climate than what we have here, but he starts a lot of his seedlings and hotbed in his greenhouse in early spring. And I've always been curious about.

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of about trying that method. And so if I ever am able to have a greenhouse in my life, then that will definitely be on the list. Well, are you talking about like a high tunnel style greenhouse? Are you talking about a hard sided greenhouse? He has a hard sided greenhouse and he does a like a four by four square raised hotbeds. So he uses like, it's

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He uses fresh horseman orange straw and as it's composting hot for like the first two months of it composting, it creates a really warm environment and he starts a lot of his seedlings right on that. Yeah, my husband put a couple raised beds in that greenhouse. Oh cool. I don't know, a month or so ago. He as soon as that greenhouse went up, I knew I was going to lose him. I knew he was going to be out there all the time. That's great though.

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He went out a couple months ago and built the boxes and put the compost in and a little bit of just dirt dirt on top. And he planted radishes. And he's been waiting for these radishes to pop. And he sent me pictures two days ago of the baby radishes starting to come up. And literally capital letters in the text, radishes and three exclamation points. I was like...

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Oh my God, you're still a frustrated farmer. You should have been a farmer, not a gardener. But it's great. It's so fun and everything is looking good for this spring. And that's probably why I was talking so fast a minute ago, because we're so excited. Last year was awful here with the rain or the week and our gardens were so sad. Like the production level was terrible.

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So we've been hanging in and planning and wishing and hoping that this year will be better and it's starting to look like maybe it'll be okay. Well, that's great. That's great. I'm hopeful here too. Last year, I decided that I was going to start gardening season on time and be ahead of the schedule and be really organized.

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I was super on the ball, I think all of February, March, April, May, planting. Everything went in like without a hitch. And then we had, so at least another 30 acres to the south of us here, and we make hay. Our first crop hay was the most disastrous hay crop I've ever had in my life. And after what we lovingly refer to as haypocalypse that was late June, I never was able to catch up. So.

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It was still a really successful growing season, but I felt like I was playing catch up from June on until the very end. Yes. One of the things I have really learned from this podcast and from doing our farm to market garden in the last four years is that this lifestyle will give you the highest highs and the lowest lows and you don't know when they're going to hit.

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Yep. And I think you just have to give yourself some grace sometimes too and know that you just got to roll with those things. And you know, if a few things just don't get done, they just don't get done and the world isn't going to end. And if you have to feed a few things to the chickens, it's not the worst thing in the world. So I've tried to remember that this last year. Yeah. And the chickens very much appreciate it. So you're doing a good thing for them too. Yes, they do.

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It's, I don't know, there's so many things that people do when they're in this lifestyle. Like you do hay and you have, you, you trained your massage horses and you rehabbed with massage horses. I never would have thought of that as a part of homesteading or having land or whatever. I don't know why I should have. And I talked to a lady the other day and she has taken her years and years of experience from ranching.

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doing articles and she's doing public speaking. Sure. And part of the reason I love the podcast so much is because everybody is so creative and ingenious with their skillsets. It's so fun to know that just because you live on acreage, it doesn't mean that you're out there with a trowel and a shovel digging in the dirt. There are other things that you can do. Excuse me, yeah, and I think.

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I think everybody that lives, excuse me, this lifestyle has such diverse backgrounds, such diverse stories. I feel like a lot of our hearts are in the same place or similar place, but just kind of understanding how everybody got to where they are is always really fascinating to me. I love to hear people's stories.

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Yes, me too. That's why I chose this to talk about. I love it. I mean, I don't want to spend the next 10 minutes telling you how much I love doing this, but I really do. It has been such a gift to listen to people's stories and how they got to where they are and what they're doing currently and then what their future plans are. Because one lady had like 18 future plans. And

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And I'll probably maybe get some of those done. Yeah, sure. Well, it's really fun to dream big, that's for sure. Yeah, and if you have 18 ideas, if you even get five of them in place and they work, you're doing great. Yes. So on that note, what's your future look like at your place? Well, I'm actively, I have building plans and permit, building permit.

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to add on to our existing barn. So that will help us to maximize a little bit more hay storage space and just do things in general just more efficiently and all of those things. So not in not adding more horses to the mix, but adding just being able to help my team be more efficient and make life easier and just provide yet even a better higher level of service.

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So the barn addition, I'm hoping that we're going to be able to do that here this year. Things are looking really positive for that. And beyond that, there's, I have a big dream to hopefully I can purchase the property here to the south of me that's really, really stunning, beautiful, cuttle marine land. It's surrounded by nature preserve like we are here on all three sides.

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And I would love to kind of restore that. That's a little bit of what my dad does, things like that too. He was the president of a big environmental restoration company for years and a mining engineer by trade. And so again, just really, really connected with that nature piece. And I'd love to, the ag land has been really, it's been really abused. It's been really...

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know, over-tilled, over- herbicided, over- is herbicided a word? I'm not sure if it is. You just made it a word, yes. It is now. So, you know, the ag land has been really, I don't know, abused and I'd love to restore that and help plant some prairie. And this area down here was once a really special bur oak savanna, like so prairie bur oak savanna.

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And I'd love to restore some of the woods and there's some spring-fed wetland back there and just, you know, kind of bring things back to the natural glory that it was once. So, I, that's my, that's one of my big dreams, but. I love that. That's awesome. It's beautiful down here. Okay. I forgot one question about your horses and I want to end the podcast on this because it actually might be relevant. Do you breed any of your horses?

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Currently, no. I have one breeding stallion here. I should have mentioned it earlier and I didn't think of it. I'm not sure why it didn't come to mind at the time, but I have a very special breed of horse here that has very, very long-standing classical roots in dressage and that's called the Lipizan. I have two breeding stallions here.

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that one of them I own, he is not breeding. I was really lucky and blessed to have him come into my life when one of the largest breeders of the lipozons in the world here in Chicago closed last year. So his name is Batoasta. We call him lovingly Toast. He's a big goofball. So Toast is here. And then we have a really beautiful young breeding stallion that's owned by the

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previous managers of Temple Farms. And he is actively breeding. And we'll see where that goes. It's a very small breed. It's really tight-knit bloodlines. He is very unique in his genetics.

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we don't have any mares here that are having foals, but we do have some stallions that we stand here, if that's a clearer answer. Yep. Okay. And that breed, the Lipizan, is that Italian, German, it's from somewhere, right? Yeah, they came from a few places in the world now, but I think what most people would associate with the breed would be the Spanish Riding School in Vienna, Austria. Okay. The dancing white horses.

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Okay. Yeah. I was first, I was thinking Italian and I was like, no, that can't be right. And then I was like, I bet it's a Slavic country. I bet it's Germany or Austria or all those. Yeah. There's quite a few of them in Hungary now too. Okay. Cool. Thank you for that because I know just enough to trip over my own feet about this stuff. All right. I try to keep these to half an hour and we're almost there. Like five seconds left. So Meg.

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Thank you for entertaining me and my questions because I know I can be a bit much when I'm like, what's that? But thank you for your time, I appreciate it. Yeah, of course, thank you for the call, it was really fun. All right, you have a great evening. Talk to you soon. Yep, bye. Bye.